Time For A Change

Recently, I’ve been thinking a lot about how much people judge each other. Throughout our lives, we have all judged someone. I’ve done it. You’ve done it. We all have. And sometimes, we don’t even realize when we are doing it. But the question is WHY do we do it? We have no right to judge someone else. Just like someone has no right to judge us. We don’t know what someone has been through in their life. We don’t know what adversities they have faced. So why judge someone when you literally know nothing about them or their life? And even if you think you know someone, chances are you still don’t know anything that they have been through.

 Every time we judge someone, we miss the opportunity to truly get to know them because we are so focused on what WE think about them even though we know absolutely nothing about them. I think we all need to stop judging each other and placing stereotypes on each other. What do we really gain by doing that? Nothing. We gain nothing from judging someone except for a misguided portrayal of them.

Yes, I have judged someone before. And I was wrong to do that. Just like its wrong for someone else to judge me as well. And after thinking about this topic many times, I don’t want to be that person who just judges other people. And I’m not going to be anymore. And I hope that some of you after reading this will be right there with me. It’s time to make a change.

– M


10 thoughts on “Time For A Change

  1. BB says:

    Great post. LOVE that Bob Marley quote.

    Liked by 1 person

  2. fausterkraft says:

    Indeed, we can’t learn good things from people if we still judge them, think positively. I like your post!

    Liked by 1 person

  3. Reblogged this on anubhavawasthi and commented:
    Loved it..! 🙂

    Liked by 1 person

  4. nerdyninjapaige says:

    I have often had those same thoughts! Thank you for putting them into words!

    Liked by 1 person

  5. georgielizabeth says:

    Great post. It is human nature to judge, but that doesn’t mean it has to be negative or that we act on or share our negative judgements.

    Liked by 1 person

  6. Reblogged this on a slice of life and commented:
    l alwsays bring my umbrella on by bag and l’d never cared about the change of seasons before ,weather rainy or dry.

    However, this rainy season is different. l have to go for work early in the morning while anyone else perhaps still on the bed or just sitting wearing a thick cloth and having a cup of hot coffee or tea.
    l thought there must have flooded somewhere because rain never stops until now.

    Even it rain heavily, and even on this ‘day off’ of mostly people, l am ‘happily’ walking down the street trying to enjoy the shower of rain.

    well, all above is unimportant, here is more important ,..


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